3 Common Myths About Surrogacy and the Truth Behind Them

Often, intended parents have a lot of preconceived notions about surrogacy. Unfortunately, some of these take the form of common myths about surrogacy agencies, surrogate mothers, and egg donors. While many people know not to accept popular sentiment at face value, they still need somebody to tell them the truth before they can undergo such a life-changing, personal process.

Here are 3 common myths related to surrogate mothers busted:

1. Surrogates are in it for the money

There’s no doubt that surrogate mothers are paid well. However, it’s not the only reason they go down this path. Surrogates want to help others enjoy parenthood. In fact, many former surrogates state that they got a lot of positive reactions and overwhelming support from family and friends for the decision, which is a greater motivation than being compensated well.

2. Intended parents will have control over the body of the surrogate

The surrogate never loses control of her life and body. Before moving forward with the pregnancy, the surrogate, the intended parents, and the agency sits down to negotiate all eventualities. This way, surrogate mothers enter the pregnancy with clear expectations for every situation.

You’ll also be made aware of every step and what is expected from both sides. This will help facilitate understanding and trust between you. A surrogate expects to maintain as healthy and happy pregnancy as possible. You’ll never be compelled to do anything you’re not comfortable with.

3. Surrogates may find it difficult to give up the baby

This is a pretty common fear. However, a surrogacy pregnancy is very different — they don’t have the same kind of bond they have with their children.

After all, surrogates know that the baby isn’t genetically theirs and build a relationship with the intended parents, which makes the experience entirely different. The bonding process with the soon-to-be parents strengthens this.

In fact, the bond with the parents is usually a surrogate’s favorite thing about this process. Most surrogates love to help parents accomplish their family goals, citing their surrogacy as being one of the most intense and beautiful experiences of their lives.

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